I've never commented on this as far as I can remember. It's not something I am called on to do with any regularity. It is one of the most universally hated parts of a therapist's job. What is it? Calling child protective services.Here's why: Helping teens grow and...
Marijuana Addiction in Teens
People have a hard time believing marijuana is addictive. Indeed, for many people it is not. It is similar to alcohol in that most people who use it do not become dependent. Most can use it in a social, recreational situation. However, like alcohol, there are some...
Discipline By Leading
Occasionally you need to come down hard on your child for a transgression, but if you are doing this daily then you are an ineffective disciplinarian. Sure you might be getting compliance. People will comply out of fear. Given the first opportunity though, they will...
3 Keys to a Great Summer
This summer can be amazing with your teenager! You can help him grow and develop his character. You will have to be an intentional parent, but you can do it! Helping teens grow and families improve connection,Lauren Goodman, MS, MFT
Help With Depression For Teens
One of the simplest things you can do to help your teen combat mild depression is to help them be more selfless. These days the commonly held belief is that we all need to work on ourselves; we need to take time out for ourselves; we need to focus on our own internal...
How Mindfulness Can Help Anxiety
Mindfulness is choosing to exist differently. It means you are very intentional about experiencing the present moment. You also have to experience it without self-judgement. It often looks like savoring your present moment and finding things to be...
Help for Chronic Worry
The Bible has a lot to say about worry...namely that you shouldn't. Here I share some words from Jesus that are truly wise when it comes to letting go of what you can't control, and what you don't need to try to control. Helping teens grow and families improve...
Feeding the Teenage Mind
Without meaning to, we've let our kids fill their minds with intellectual junk food. We are taught to be very careful about what we eat so that we can keep our physical bodies healthy. In our culture though, we don't pay a lot of attention to feeding our...
Dads- You Matter to Your Daughter
Dad, do you feel irrelevant in her life? Do you feel like she's only bonded with mom? Do you feel like your daughter doesn't care what you think, or that she doesn't want to spend time with you? The research says she needs you. Here's why: Helping teens grow and...
Teen sobriety requires a change in friends
While this is not California, the statistics from this article are still very interesting to think about. http://eastwindsor.patch.com/articles/christie-courts-mandatory-treatment-for-drug-offenders-26a17aed In the state of New Jersey it has been found that mandating...