Do you ever feel like you can't find a good solution for a problem? You've tried and you've tried to fix something but it continues to challenge you. One example of this might be losing weight. You've tried a lot of diets and exercise plans, but you simply cannot...
Seek to Be Significant
Today in church I heard a great little tidbit from Pastor Rick Warren. He said, "Seek to be significant, not prominent." I thought that was extremely applicable to the teenagers here in Orange County. We're trained to differentiate ourselves, be a leader, and try...
5 Things That Increase Anxiety
Anxiety sucks! It's the constant worry about things out of one's control. It can be physical too. Do you ever have those days where your body is irritated or agitated for no good reason? Helping teens grow and families improve connection, Lauren Goodman, MS,...
Is Your Teenager Sleeping Enough?
School, sports, homework, social life, texting...these are all things that get prioritized above your teenager's sleep. There honestly is enough time in a day to accomplish all these goals, but barely. If your adolescent isn't carefully managing his or her schedule,...
Call 911 If Your Friend Drinks Too Much Or ODs
Teenagers, this post is addressed to you. Some of you aren't aware if one of your friends has had too much to drink or has overdosed on drugs, but others of you can tell. For those of you who can tell, you may fear calling an ambulance or dropping a friend at the...
Building Solid Friendships
For some of you, you have had the same core group of friends ever since you started school. Your group is so tight-knit that hardly anyone new joins and hardly anyone leaves. There are also some of you who have that one best friend. You have been best friends...
Time with Our Teens is Short
If your child is already a teenager then your days with them are numbered. It won't be long until your teen strikes out on his or her own. At that point your relationships changes. I don't say this to be a Debbie Downer. I want you to be intentional with your...
Molly is the new Ecstasy- Molly Abuse on the Rise
The use of "Molly" is on the rise. I've even encountered several teens coming through my office that have abused the drug. This is scary because it is MUCH more dangerous than they realize. If you see your teenager texting about it, or overhear them talking about...
Teaching Self-Discipline to Teens
In therapy I have many conversations with teens about character qualities they need to develop in order to be functional adults. While conversations are helpful, lessons are better "caught, not taught." Mom and Dad, you are in a better position to reinforce...
Treating Anxiety Disorders
This past week I met with a psychologist who specializes solely in the treatment of anxiety disorders. He had some really interesting things to say, and I paraphrased a couple of them in this video. The bottom line though is that you CAN'T give up when you're facing...